Tips for First Date Success

Okoro Ben | 08:51 |
First dates can be challenging and stressful.Getting through first date can be really difficult because of the desire to make a good impression. Here are some tips for a successful first date.

1. Right selections of venue
A lot is revealed about your character and personality by the choice of your venue. Your choice of venue tells the things you enjoying going. For example a day spent at the park shows that you enjoy nature and outdoor activities.



2. Make plans
Making a little preparation on a first date will help you to avoid anxiety. Getting to know your dates interest helps you to sustain the conversation and gives you a chance to be more confident.

3. Look good
The type of shirt you wear on a first date is determined by where you go but be sure to give the best impression. Dressing indecently may give out the wrong impression about you.

4. Punctuality
Be punctual, timing is a sensitive issue on a first date and always avoid going to a date late. But if you are late for date because of some uncontrollable reason, always remember to notify your date.

5. Plan to have fun
Plan to have fun and do not put so much pressure on yourself. Just have fun and enjoy your date even if it is not romantic.

6. Always listen before you speak
Learn to stay quiet and listen before you speak. Share turns while conversing and always remember that it is rude to interrupt when your date is talking.

7. Keep the conversation alive.
Try to avoid disturbing topics like previous relationship and keep the discussion light.

8. Have an open mind
Try to understand your date as much as possible. Never forget that people are different, be interested in the likelihood of something great happening between the both of you. So be sure to keep an open mind on your first date.

9. Show interest
Indicate your interest at the end of every story shared by your date by simply commenting or asking questions to show that you have being listening carefully.

10. Honesty
Be honest, don't be afraid of letting you date know how you feel about the date. Be true to yourself and your date by letting him know if the both of your stand a chance together or not.

11. Read the signs
Learn to read every signs made by your date because this will help you to determine if your date is enjoying the date or not.

12. Communication
Don't forget to communicate after the date. Often times, people are afraid to call their date because they are afraid of been rejected. Calling or texting after the date shows that you are truly interested and caring.

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