The Dos and Don't of a First Date

The Dos Don't of a first date entails the things that should be done and avoided by all means on a first date. Here are some rules for a first date

The Dos

1. Be yourself
Being yourself is better than pretending to be someone you are not. Let your date know and like you for who you are.



2. Listen carefully
When on a date, you should know when to listen and when to speak because the date is not all about you.Remember your first date is centered on getting to know each other.

3. Have fun
Try to have fun on your date. Bring new ideas that will be fun. Try new things for fun on your date other than doing the regular
stuff you when out on a date.

4. Put on flat shoes
Wearing heels may hinder some lovely moment like talking a long walk in town after dinner.

5. Make eye contact
You can discover if a person truly loves you or not by making eye contact. Although some can fake it.

The Don't

1. No talking about your past relationships
No one wants to hear about your past relationship on a first date. So leave the past behind and try to move on and explore the
world.

2. Don't Leave him on the fence
If still love to go on a second date with him, tell him the date was great and be positive. Sometimes your interest can be revealed in the way you talk and your gesture can tell them if you had fun or not. Don't indicate your interest if you are not interested.

3. Don't pretend
Don't do anything out of the usual to please him. Don't try to please him by going out of your way. Always be yourself, pretending to be someone else is really exhausting.

4. Don't talk about sex
Do not talk about sex because it is will make him feel you are desperate but it's okay to talk about it if the both of have plans about having sex.

5. Don't talk or text on phone
Talking or texting may give your date the impression that you're not interested.You may excuse yourself whenever you have a very important call but don't stay for too long.

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