WAYS TO SPICE UP YOUR LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP

This is one of the toughest relationship yet most people yearn for it.
yes, its a long distance relationship that some people, Once in a life time, always want.It is difficult
to maintain one and that's a very mainstream statement to make. it is the best way to realize the importance
of the other person.it shows us the true value of a relationship an worthiness of the other it is a test for
all those who are strong enough to handle one.
 here are few tips and ways by which one can spice up
their long distance relationship....



 SHARING EVERYTHING

This is the most important part of the relationship, being able to tell the other person how you felt
throughout the day might sound a little cliche, but it is the best you could do.But yes, don't force
them into knowing EACH AND EVERYTHING.

A: 'Hey i made cheese sandwich today.
B: 'I'll alert the media'.
like seriously, no. nobody wants to have an absolutely unnecessary conversation like that. other than
what happened above you should be able to tell each other everything else.


FIND SIMILARITIES

You might find this too mushy mushy, but no, it actually helps. Do find out what he or she likes most
about what you like too. They might end up liking what you love too. but don't expect your boyfriend to
rate clothes and accessories. if you want to, give him an option of going negative on numbers.


GIVE SPACE

The most important one . let the other person breathe. if they want to go out, let them. if they don't
want to text you for sometime, let that be it. Don't make a fuss out of small issues. even if its the
hard truth, the fact is that we need ourselves more than we need our better halves. sometimes your
importance defines your relationship. what you need is probably more important that what the relationship
needs at the moment.

One of the biggest problems that come up are boyfriends(even girlfriends sometimes) telling their better halves
not to dress up the way they do.ITS A BIG NO TO THAT. Dress up the way you want to. Dress up for yourself. Make
sure what you do makes you happy because that's when you will be able to keep the relationship working.


TAKE DECISIONS TOGETHER

Everyone in a serious relationship would understand this. with the growth of the relationship, they start to
understand that they have responsibility and duty towards each other.And so, taking decisions becomes very important.
talk about things, talk about life long goals and make sure that you  help each other decide what you want.
this helps one to develop their relationship their  own way.


 TRUST EACH OTHER

This is too mainstream but true. Be there for each other when you need each other the most.everyone makes a mistake for
which you stop trusting them. but if you are looking for ways to make your relationship stronger, then make sure you also
see how much effort your partner is making in order to gain your trust back. please don't make them feel like they committed
a crime, its really very immature to get in between all those mistakes from the past in your present fights. stop that.. .

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