First Date Tips You Don't Want to Miss

A first date is a chance to meet someone new, expand your horizons, have a good time and lots more. Forget about if he is cute or not, makes enough money, stable, committed, generous and faithful. Just have fun together and enjoy yourself. Here are some pointers for a successful first date.

1. Look nice
In looking nice, consider wearing a dress or skirt and add some feminine touches to your outfit. Try wearing some sexy stilettos that shows off your pedicured toes, wear a beautiful makeup that is not overly done, long dangly earrings and make sure your hair is bushed and shiny. Look your best and look on point.



2. Smell good
You will make a lasting impression if you smell good because men notice how women smell. Wear a perfume that smells nice and not too harsh.

3. It's an introduction not a counseling section
A first date is an introduction and not the time to know a man's life story. It is not appropriate to reveal too much about yourself on a first date. You shouldn't be discussing your health problems, your greatest fears, your family problems and other personal matters. If your date starts getting too personal with you, always remember you don't have to answer any questions you feel are disturbing. You can ignore the question followed by a smile. If your date discloses personal things about his self or goes into long winded stories about him and his ex, listen but then try as much as you can to change the subject the first chance you get.

4. Listen
Avoid talking too much if you are the chatty type. A first date gives you the opportunity to learn a lot about your date. You can learn what a man wants from a relationship on a first date. Always listen carefully because people tells you so much about themselves through their stories, appearance and how they carry themselves.

5. Don't push it
A man can always tell when a woman is pushing it. Be yourself, if a man doesn't likes you for you, he is definitely not going to like you for trying to be what you are not. No matter who you are, there is someone out there for you.

6. Be calm
Accept the fact that everything can not be perfect on the first date. Appreciate and comment on the things that are going well and leave  zero comment about the things you don't like.

7. Be the first to end the date
Be the first to end the date even when your date still wants to continue. Leave your date wanting more of you. Express your enjoyment of the date and kindly excuse yourself. Always remember to say thank you at the end of the date. It is unnecessary to send a text message that very night or the following day. Just say thank you at the end of the date and mean it.

8. Do not contact him
Do not be the one to contact him,wait for the man to contact you. If he is interested in you, he will definitely contact you. Remember no thank you text, calls or emails. But if he contacts you and ask you out for another day, you can accept if you like him but the date should not come on a short notice. Men treat women who takes their time precious as a rear gem.

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