Are you in love,or do you think that you are in love. Are you sure? How? Why do you think that you are in love? Why do you think that it is not temporary attraction or infatuation? Why do you think that you both are destined to grow old together? Well Let us try and find out if its truly love.Do you feel happy with your him or her? Do you feel that if you both were left alone on an island or a world created for both of you for one week, you would enjoy it and look forward to spending time together again? Or you will get bored? How about your self esteem? Does your he or she make you feel good about yourself? Is his/her focus on your good qualities or sometimes faults?Is he or her only interested in what he or her can get from you or is she or he seeking your own advantage and satisfaction?
What about you? Are you looking for some signs of weaknesses in certain areas, or are contented and satisfied with the whole package?Love is different than any other relationship and has its own measures. It goes beyond friendship and one has to ask questions to find out if it is love and nothing else. Coming back to our inquiry, what if your beloved gets you some gifts or clothes? Will you be delighted and wear immediately, or will you try to look at it critically to find out how you will look in that particular piece of clothing?Do you smile at the thought of your beloved? Get dreamy? Want to share everything special? Say, you see something good ,something exciting, or complete a some work very satisfactorily, will you be eager to tell your beloved about that? Will you impatiently wait to share that special moment?
Do you ever compare him/her with others and look down on him or her in front of others? Give a
second look to someone of opposite sex? No? What if the person looks more handsome or more beautiful? Would you still rather
never think of giving a second look and continue with the thoughts of your beloved? When you go to a movie together do you
try to look at each other in the darkness or rather watch the movie? Do you watch the movie at all while you are together?Is your beloved in your plan for the future such as Having children, a new home, new life, etc? Do you talk about how you both would like to spend your old age together? Have you also thought about the career options after marriage?
If your answers is positive to all above queries, you need to look at the relationship seriously. Because you are truly in love! Love is difficult to find out. Many times, we feel that we are in love, only to find out afterwards that it was not love but infatuation. Making sure that it is love before committing IS better. Wish you all the best.
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